Thursday, April 27, 2006

Birthday Kiss

I'm a sucker for this little guy.

It's funny. When Jonathan was seven, he was my "big guy;" the oldest of four. Spencer, at seven, is my "little guy." There is quite a bit of truth to the "baby of the family" thing.

I call him "Big Dude" and "Pirate Boy." I praise him for having given up his thumb and blankie two weeks before his seventh birthday -- cold turkey. (No visible withdrawal symptoms, either.)

Still, he just seems so...little.

He's got way too much power for a person his size, too. And he knows it. I may have sermonized for twenty minutes straight about my need for no interruptions during the afternoon so that I can Finish That Chapter. But when Spencer comes creeping through my office door an hour later and climbs up into my chair, sliding into the space behind my back -- he knows I'm a goner.

Especially when he starts rubbing my back with his little hands.

"You are sooooooo sweet," he says in his high, pre-testoneronic voice. "You are my precious Wawwy."

That's what he calls me. Wawwy. It's supposed to be "Mommy" with the M's turned upside-down; except, he spells it with an "a."

Would you be able to say "no" to a little kid who is rubbing your back and calling you "Wawwy?"
Well, yeah, okay. I do say "no" to him. I just wait until he's finished rubbing my back.

And if he starts whining about anything -- anything -- he's outta here. I can't stand whining.

Usually he's too busy saying funny things to whine much. Like the morning he was warming himself by the space heater in the bathroom while Daddy was getting dressed.

"Ooo, this heater smells like POOP!" Spencer said.

"Like poop?" Eric asked.

"Yeah, like poop."

"Why does it smell like poop?"

"I don't know," Spencer replied. "I guess you must've farted."

That's my Spencer.

He's especially good at pointing out bad breath, too. You can imagine how encouraging that is when I'm kissing him goodnight.

"Ewww! Your breath is disgusting."

Thank you, dear. It's moments like these that make motherhood worthwhile.

No matter. He's an absolutely heart-stopper and he knows it.

Now if you'll excuse me...it's time for my back rub.

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10of my readers are feeling chatty:

At 1:55 PM, Blogger Praying for your Prodigal said...

What joy! It leapt off the page! Thanks for sharing!

Diane

 
At 2:26 PM, Anonymous First Time Mom said...

Great entry! I would love for my son to give me back rubs - but alas - 8 months old is probably to young for corruption in this arena. His dad will have to suffice for now :)

FTM

 
At 2:31 PM, Anonymous SMIT said...

You are so whipped. ;-) He sounds adorable.

 
At 9:23 PM, Blogger Dave said...

DramaMama has it nice in the backrub arena... its one of my specialties.

I will have to take anti-whiner lessons from you, to deal with the Bear. He watches Caillou which is toddler whiner training.

 
At 10:36 AM, Anonymous Leese said...

((Spencer)) does have charm! I know because I've met him in person. :)

 
At 4:59 PM, Anonymous Ken said...

Such wonderful boys you have. Must be just like their dad!

 
At 5:02 PM, Blogger WendyWings said...

Awww that is a great picture.

 
At 2:35 PM, Anonymous eph2810 said...

How cool to get a back-rub from your little guy. You have a great family my dear. :)

 
At 9:56 PM, Blogger Shane said...

too funny - reminds me of my mom. When something offended her and she wanted to make you aware of it, she would begin with "I don't mean to offend you but . . . "

Wendy directed me here. I love the way you love your kids!

 
At 1:06 PM, Anonymous debz said...

AWWWWWW! What a sweet read.

 

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